What Leads To Anxiety With Girls
You can't talk.
Your whole body shakes like a leaf.
Your knees buckle.
These familiar symptoms occur every once in a while.
This feeling is all too common for guys who are either new to the dating scene or those who have lost all their self-belief when their previous relationship ended.
If you've been feeling this way, it is not just you.
A lot of guys have the same problem.
Whether you've been with a lady or not, you may still be prone to anxiety.
Novices are not the only ones that get nervous.
In fact, you may be flabbergasted to find out that the coolest guys you know feel the same nervousness when they come near gorgeous women.
Why do some men succeed with ladies even when they experience the same "butterflies" that all men experience? Some guys hide their anxiety.
Some guys still push through with their pick up lines and approach techniques even when they feel edgy.
Finding out what you can do to cure your anxiety means finding out the root cause.
Allow me to share a number of of the things causing anxiety with girls.
Rejection Anxiety If you think you're going to be rejected, you may feel like forgetting about approaching women.
When you think about the worst methods to be rejected, you may feel like giving up entirely.
Needless to say, because of the negative feeling, a man feels like running away before he can move one step closer to the girl he wants to approach.
The notion of being rejected is in your head.
The worst thing is that this thought of rejection could be stopping you from really interacting with women.
What does this mean to you? You should always think that rejection is no big deal.
After all, there is more than one woman in the room.
Moreover, dating is a numbers game.
If you approach several women in one night, you're bound to succeed in getting a woman's number earlier.
Look at the times you weren't rejected, instead of focusing on the times when a girl slammed you down.
You are going to keep trying until you get used to approaching girls and being rejected becomes less of a problem.
"She's Too Beautiful" It's inevitable that some of your insecurities will show in the dating scene.
This is particularly true if you think the girl you are about to meet is prettier than the other girls you have dated in the past.
You do not have to act star struck over a girl who looks pretty.
What if the pressure is really getting to you? It will help if you think of her as regular when compared with the other women you will meet in the future.
Just thinking that she isn't too attractive will help you let go of your anxious feelings.
I Don't Know What to Say A perfect conversation is just in your head.
You never have to work too hard to impress a woman with your words.
Keep in mind, your girl went to the club or bar because she wants to meet and interact with people.
If you merely talk to her like you would talk to a friend, you can begin from there.